Thursday, April 08th, 2010 | Author:
Julia
Hurray for a sunny day! After all this cloud, rain and wind it’s wonderful to look out of the office and see sun and blue skies. Just a shame I’m on the wrong side of the glass! What this does mean is that with the prospect of a sunny week end, Saturday will be a day out and not a day in doing cleaning and DIY. My hot suggie is a train to Weymouth with a walk on the coastal path to Durdle Door and Lulworth Cove. Lunch at aforementioned DD and then a walk back along the cliffs.
Life just now is very domesticated. Ian has finished decorating the front spare bedroom and now cleared the landing of all DIY accroutrements. So now it’s time for the interesting part – choosing curtains and carpet and furniture. The plan is also to lay a wooden floor in the hallway as polishing the existing boards will not be possibe due to warping and damage so we’ll buy a nice oak flooring to lay. We’re thinking a dark red carpet to go up the stairs and across the landing with the addition of brass stair rods if funds permit…
So what of the writing? Well, in effect I’ve had a three month break having been back at work for three months but now feel ready to start the editing process of the book. The break in writing has been refreshing after 12 months slog where I got to a point where my creative brain would just seize up and I felt exhausted. But 12 weeks of using the other half of my brain has left me hungry to get started again so that I have a fully edited novel ready to take to the Winchester conference in July ( thanks to Kerry and Kay for nagging me on this! )
But there is no room for culture tonight – for this evening we have a curry and karaoke night at the Jewel in the Crown - the very best Indian restuarant on the South Coast. Yes! Thirty people from Company X will be descending on the Jewel for a night of spice and song. So, watch out Shirley – here we come!
Saturday, July 18th, 2009 | Author:
Julia
Never call me bitter. Or short-tempered. Or resentful. But highly irritated? Yay! Imagine spending weeks growing Chinese Lanterns and Honesty plants from seed. Carefully planting them in a pair of co-ordinating mini propagators. Every day checking they are growing OK with sufficient sunlight and moisture. Caring. Really caring about them because you really want these babies to grow. They are special to you and it is now almost time, after weeks of nurturing, to plant them in the soil and let them make them own way.
Now picture this…
Your husband says – ‘you can take the lid off those now – they dont need the plastic cover.’
‘Oh no,’ you cry, ‘they do – if you take the cover off the slugs will get them. Leave them as they are.’
The conversation ends there and you think little of it. You fail to recall the recent incident of the half destroyed lavendar cut back at the wrong time of year despite you telling said perpetrator NOT to cut back. The lavendar is transformed from blooming bush to something out of When Worlds Collide or an Aussie bush fire – all brown sprigs with a few splashes of mauve. But I digress.. like I said I’m not bitter.
Imagine my shock when this morning I discover that Mr. P took an independent decision to remove the propagator lids as ‘ the slugs won’t touch them – they don’t eat plants like that.’
And that dear reader is where the sad and sorry tale ends. At approximately 9.30am this morning it became apparent that some slugs ( possibly Millbrook-based slugs who had bussed in on the Number 10 wearing hoodies and smoking fags ) had in fact indulged in my beloved plantlings and scoffed the lot.
No. I’m not bitter. Just WILD. And on the subject of wild – I’ve put the latest portfolio shot of Tofu up. She is in need of some soft focus and air brushing these days as you can see…




Thursday, May 28th, 2009 | Author:
Julia
First off – in contrast to all the news about North Korea, rising levels of child diabetes and yet more job losses, I thought I would post a wonderfully uplifting story which caught my eye. Anybody heard of a lady called Margaret Allan ? No? Well, to be honest neither had I until I scrolled down the news items on the BBC News website this morning. It looked a fairly innocuous report slipped in between tales of Taliban attrocities and the economic downturn but proved worth a look. Margaret Allan was clearly one lady in a million and her story must surely warm even the hardest of hearts. This lady lived in a Welsh village called Solva and following her death, her will revealed that she had left her estate to her friends and carers in the village. Sounds fairly commonplace but read her story and I guarantee it will boost you up for the day and re-fuel any doubts you might have in the milk of human kindness. What struck me most however was her picture – probably taken during the war – and revealing a pretty, fashionable, fresh-faced young woman packed with vitality and warmth. And here’s the message – the elderly members of our community were our age once and still carry within them the essence of what they were when they were younger. Look past the lines, wrinkles and crowsfeet – smooth them away – and there you have it. The young person within. Let’s not judge or treat them differently to the more youthful members of our society – they are those same people – just been around a lot longer and learnt a lot more. I’ve pasted in the photo of Mrs Allan below…
So, having delivered my thought for the day, I’ll move on to more mundane issues. The garden. It’s looking good with just two trays of bedding plants to put in and a couple of trailing petunias to plant in the new wall-mounted thingy. The cat has blessed us by not squatting on the lawn which Ian has mowed to perfection. Chilli plants are doing well and I can’t believe how much the herbs are growing now I have given their pot a spring clean and got rid of the dead bits. I think we’ll have it cracked this week-end allowing Ian to go on his next trip with an easy mind.
Writing-wise, I submitted my competition entries to the Winchester Writers Conference. Fingers crossed but competition is so stiff for this one with thousands of entries. I’ll be grateful if they just open my envelopes! It’s good to have them finished and submitted. Next pressing issue is the writeinvite night at Rosies this coming Monday. Promised to submit and read back a new story. Only problem is I haven’t written one yet which is suitable so need to get down to this today. Have an idea in my head and the twist planned out – just need to fill the rest of it in. I’m also getting slightly anxious re the progression of my book. I’ve completed 35 000 words but so much more to write. I’d like to be able to get a chapter down over the next couple of days and break a few more thousand words. Lets see how it goes: the weather is beautiful, I’ve just started a new novel, the patio is calling and I have cheese, olives and fresh bread in the fridge. None of this bodes well in terms of productivity. Hey – woman – leave that cheese alone…


Saturday, May 23rd, 2009 | Author:
Julia
Well, I said I would report back on the newly launched Writing Buddies which enjoyed its inaugral meeting on Friday in Borders. Nine writers ( professional and what has kindly been described as aspiring ) sat around the table with coffee chewing the literary cud. Plan is to meet every two weeks with marketing and commercial issues and the ‘loneliness of the long distance writer’ being two key themes for future debate. Definitely worth a visit and will trot along to the next session in two weeks.
I’ve also joined a new writing circle called The Blue Room which meets in Highfield every Saturday morning. Set up is similar to the Wednesday night meetings at Tauntons – a great opportunity to share work and critique it in a supportive yet objective environment. So thats where I am writing-wise. Next week I have to complete and submit my entries for the Winchester Writers Conference. Stakes are high and I’m determined to give it my best shot.
So after all that literary news, I have to say that this afternoon was spent undertaking one of my most loathed tasks – gardening. How Mrs Q gets any pleasure out of this filthy hobby I cannot understand. I planted what felt like an entire nursery’s stock of plants which Dad had very kindly grown for us. Ian mowed the lawn and put down a membrane for the pea shingle path in an effort to prevent weeds growing through – no doubt they will find a way. All in all it looks pretty impressive and we even have some yellow roses out over the pergola. Gooseberries are also looking good this year as is the damson tree after last year’s shock crop of around seven. Very much hope to be making gooseberry and damson jams in September.
Tuesday, May 05th, 2009 | Author:
Julia
Helen, Jason and I attended the Hampshire Country Show at Broadlands on Sunday. Here we were able to soak up the pastoral atmosphere, wander with men dressed as Ralph from Ralph and Ted and generally get into the rural groove. Detailed below are some examples of what we were able to experience:
1. A portly gentleman in the Fur and Feather Tent sexing gerbils. Unsettling.
2. The ‘worst burger I have ever eaten – and that says something’ – Mr Q’s assessment of his £4 burger. Unfortunate.
3. View from behind of a greyhound with an ‘upset stomach’ – glad we weren’t wearing sandals. Fortunate.
4. A man with multiple piercings caressing a large lizard. Stomach churning.
5. Some pikeys breaking up a fight between Jack Russells. Oddly compelling.
Highlight of the day for myself and Mrs Q was the Rabbit Show in the Fur and Feather Tent except we came on the wrong day and judging was on the Monday – hence many empty cages. However the rabbits were beautiful and Mrs Q got to hold a giant French Lop. I nearly purchased two chocolate baby rex rabbits retailing at £20 a piece but decided to save my marriage and not procure.
Lunch took the form of giant chicken wraps which 66% of us were unable to finish.
We completed the afternoon with tea in the garden and an expose of Mr Ian’s activities that afternoon. For those of you who know, Mr Ian took a decision not to attend the show, preferring instead to spend time gardening. We applaud Mr Ian’s good intentions but feel he would have enjoyed the Rabbit Show. And the pikeys.






Saturday, May 02nd, 2009 | Author:
Julia
Haven’t done much writing this week ( well haven’t done any ) preferring instead a more sociable, relaxing time.
After Monday’s anniversary culinary fiasco, spent Tuesday evening at The Jewel In The Crown for a curry with Mr SP for curry and a catch up regarding life at Company X. Lots of news and interesting annecdotes. We’ll leave it there…:)
Thursday I went to Kingston for the day to meet up with Laura for lunch at Jamie’s Italian – well after Monday’s Jamie Oliver fish disaster I decided I needed to eat the real thing. And real thing it was…fantastic food and very affordable, the latter being particularly important to me this year. We had a lovely long lunch and a chat and then went back to her house in Twickenham to see Julia and catch up on her news. I really enjoyed the day especially the chat with ‘the girls’ back at Laura’s. I wish Robert well with his forthcoming half marathon and welcome Tom home from his Cornwall trip. Julia – keep growing your hair – it really suits you and looks beautiful.
Friday it was lunch with two ex-colleaugues from Company X followed by a curry with Ian in the evening at the Jewel. Last night was especially interesting as Kash invited us back out into the kitchen where we could watch the cooking and see how the clay tandoori oven worked. They cooked us a naan bread in the oven to take away with us.
Today is gardening day which I have agreed to participate in and then out with Mel tonight for a folk session at Cellars in Eastney. Tomorrow is an agricultural show in Romsey with Mr and Mrs Q which I am not sure Ian is too excited about always having been wary around bovine and porcine-type beasts.
So maybe – just maybe – I’ll actually get some writing done next week!!!
Sunday, October 05th, 2008 | Author:
Julia
Grapes from our garden !!! At last !!! Maybe enough for a glass of sauvignon blanc ? Will be going to Waitrose this afternoon to purchase the stinkiest slab of soft French cheese for us to munch this evening with our latest crop. Surprised really with all the rain we’ve had – made up for the damson crop of 5.

Wednesday, September 24th, 2008 | Author:
Julia
Hurray !! At last !! They’ve arrived !!! Who ? The builders of course to re-build our brick walls at the front of the house and block pave the front garden and drive way. After years of weed strewn gravel and dying plants in black pots ( such a touch of class ) we are now on the way to having a non-pikey front garden. No more double decker wrappers caught between the stones or MacDonald’s straws stuck in the wall where the cement has deteriorated. From next week we will be able to hold our heads high and say ‘ yes we live in Southampton and YES we have a normal driveway.’ Two pictures showing Kevin and his chaps’ work as of day 2:

Monday, May 26th, 2008 | Author:
Julia
Its been a mixed bag of a day today. Spent most of my time in the reading chair by the windows finishing my latest short story: The Key. This has just been sent to 4 Old Manor Way for review and will shortly be sent to 36 Traston Avenue for the same. All criticisms and suggestions for change gratefully received. The photo is the view from my chair this morning looking out into the pouring rain. Its just starting to clear a little now ( 4pm ). Im very lucky as Ian is upstairs plastering to the sounds of Johnny Cash so I have ‘Danny Boy’ reverberating round the house…Ian loves Johnny Cash. Can’t stand him myself. The second picture is the latest on the knee for all my Knee Followers – drying up nicely. And no Mum – before you ask – I wont go in the Dead Sea.


Tuesday, May 13th, 2008 | Author:
Julia
Here are our new cushions and table runner – what do you think Denise ?

